Desert Garden Therapy

Providing teens, young adults and parents of children of all ages individual counseling. In person is available in the Tri-Cities, WA area and online is available for clients throughout Washington State.

Plants in the desert all have adapted to thrive based on their unique environment. 

Some, like succulents, coated themselves with a shiny surface to keep every bit of the moisture in. Cacti developed prickles to keep predators away.  Others, like the mesquite tree, dig deep, with very long roots to keep grounded.  Rolling tumbleweeds do just the opposite and let go, cartwheeling themselves freely to disperse their seeds. 

Each one adds their uniqueness and beauty to the complex interweb of the ecosystem.

Just like plants, people have learned to thrive based on their environments.

Each person’s personality and behaviors, seen from this ecological perspective, make sense, and can be seen as strengths to use, or to determine what needs to adapt when environments shift.

Kristina at Desert Garden Therapy helps teens, young adults, parents and families find and appreciate their uniqueness, and use their strengths to solve their toughest challenges.

Clients


Parents of Young Children (Ages Birth – 8)

I help parents of young children solve their child’s behavioral challenges and improve their relationship with their child. As a Registered Play Therapist, I know how to help children express their deepest thoughts, build self-esteem, and learn to self-regulate their emotions in their first language – play. I also work directly with parents to teach them play therapy skills so they can be the agent of change in their child’s life. These skills are designed to strengthen the quality of the parent-child attachment bond as well as teach practical limit-setting approaches that really work. The main messages that your child will receive from play therapy are: “I am here for you. I am listening. I understand you. I care about you unconditionally. I delight in you. You can trust me.”

Tweens and Their Parents (Early Adolescence Ages 9-12)

The middle childhood years (ages 9 through 12) is a time of great emotional change, for many reasons. Academic pressure ramps up, and social and learning differences start to be more pronounced. Friendships can change, right around the same time that kids start to really care about what others think about them. Puberty hits, bringing with it physical changes and emotions around body image, and exploration of sexuality and gender identity. With more focus on identity, they push for more independence, and child-parent relationships can become strained. Children need a trained adult who they can open up to, and they tend to take ideas more easily from someone who isn’t their parent. Parents can benefit from learning new ways to talk to their kids to help them collaboratively solve their own problems.

Teens & Young Adults (Ages 13-25)

The middle school, high school and young adult years are unique! The brain is literally wired differently until the early 20’s, focusing on discovering who they are, forming interpersonal connections, seeking out novel experiences, launching themselves independently into the world, and thinking and feeling in new, expanded, creative ways. These same strengths that create such a zest for life can bring some big challenges. They need someone who isn’t a part of their social circle that can grant confidentiality to talk about the things they may be too afraid to bring up with loved ones; a genuine therapist who puts the relationship first can move a young person from isolation to interdependence; from “stubborn” to safe exploration; from “lost” to forming a solid identity, from “stuck” to confidently setting out on their own.

About Kristina

Philosophy

My therapeutic worldview is person-centered. This means that I believe people are the experts of their own lives, and I believe in the strength of the therapeutic relationship and the strength of my clients. I believe we are partners in the therapy process, and I will be my real self with you.

I work to give as much power to clients and families in the therapeutic process as possible. You can expect that I will explain everything and offer choices along the way. I can put on several different lenses for looking at challenges, and can utilize many different types of therapy, depending on your preferences. My style can range from structured and skills-based, to relaxed and organic, but I am most comfortable working eclectically, synthesizing several different therapies to work in a unique way with each client.


Education

  • Fully licensed to practice therapy independently in the state of Washington (LICSW #LW61001223)
  • Registered Play Therapist (RPT), Association for Play Therapy (APT)
  • MSW, University of Southern California, mental health/clinical focus
  • BS, Psychology, Washington State University
  • TF-CBT and CBT+ trained through the UW Center for Anxiety & Traumatic Stress
  • DBT training, Linehan Institute

Past Experience

  • Former Board Member, Washington State Association for Play Therapy
  • Former Therapist, WISe Program, Lutheran Community Services (for children and teens with intensive mental health challenges)
  • Former Child and Family Therapist, Catholic Charities (serving children, youth and adults with a wide variety of challenges)
  • Former Advocate, Domestic Violence Services
  • Over 7 years working with pregnant and postpartum families in a past role as a birth doula and childbirth educator
  • Over 10 years of working in marketing and communications prior to life as a therapist

Specialties

  • Neurodivergence (ADHD, Autism, etc.) from a strengths-based, self-acceptance lens
  • Trauma, PTSD, and life changes, including sexual/physical abuse survivors and child witnesses of domestic violence
  • Parent/child attachment and communication
  • Social anxiety and self-esteem
  • Depression, suicidal thoughts and self-harm
  • Toddlers, preschoolers and elementary age children
  • Pregnancy and postpartum

Therapies by Challenge

Trauma and Difficult Memories

Family Attachment and Communication

  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT)
  • Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy techniques
  • Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT)
  • Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT)
  • AutPlay® for autistic and other neurodivergent children
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) approaches specifically for families
  • Theraplay techniques
  • Family play therapy interventions

General and Social Anxiety Reduction

Depression, Suicidal Thoughts, and Self-Harm

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy techniques
  • Mindfulness skills
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
  • Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy techniques
  • Art-based therapy
  • Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT)
  • TheraPlay Techniques
  • Family-Oriented Collaborative Problem Solving
  • Focusing on what is under the behaviors (anxiety, depression, trauma, attachment, etc.)

Why Play?

How can a young child, who has just started to use language, possibly be expected to talk about their problems? The good news is they don’t have to.

Through learning specific ways of playing with your child, you can learn to work within your child’s metaphors to conquer their barriers in their language – play.

Play is also a great way to work on emotional regulation and serves as a laboratory for trying out new limit setting skills.

Online appointments if preferred

Online environments are often the most comfortable environment for today’s young people. Individuals can be in a physical environment that is most comfortable for them – in their own home.

Parents don’t have to leave home or work, eliminating challenges with child care or time off. A family can join a session from multiple locations and still be together online for therapy.

The child’s school may be able to offer a private place for them to do therapy from campus. Kids miss less class time and parents miss less work.

Contact


Location

I am only taking new clients for teletherapy (online) at this time, who are physically located in Washington State.

Current Clients

LINK TO CLIENT PORTAL

Current clients can also text at (509) 381-2266, or email at kristina@desertgardentherapy.com, though the client portal is the most secure way to contact me.

Prospective Clients

FILL OUT NEW CLIENT INQUIRY FORM

After reviewing your information, I’ll get back to you within 2 business days. Provided we’re a good fit, I’ll open up a place on the client portal for you to schedule your first appointment and fill out initial paperwork. Due to an increasingly high volume of contact, phone calls, texts and emails will not be returned for prospective clients unless the above form is submitted.

Hours

Monday
Closed
Tuesday
9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Wednesday
9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Thursday
9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Friday
9:00 am – 5:00 pm
Saturday
Closed
Sunday
Closed

Fees/Insurance

  • First appointment/Assessment $200
  • Individual sessions, 60 minutes: $150
  • Parent sessions, 30 minutes: $100
  • Some sessions may be subject to an interactive complexity fee of $20.
  • This is a partial list of fees – more information will be provided in intake paperwork.

I bill and am in network with: Aetna, Cigna, Kaiser Permanente, and all Blue Cross/Blue Shield (Premera, Regence, etc.) plans EXCEPT Providence. I also can do cash pay for out of network and will provide a superbill so you can turn it in to your insurance company for possible partial reimbursement.